Relativism: is it Really what you Know?

The Tipping Point: How Little Things Can Make a Big Difference From Malcolm Gladwell’s The Tipping Point: How Little Things Can Make a Big Difference (p.163-5):

Some years ago two Princeton University psychologists, John Darley and Daniel Batson, decided to conduct a study inspired by the biblical story of the Good Samaritan. …[The experiment] is an important demonstration of how the Power of Context has implications for the way we think about social epidemics of all kinds…

Darley and Batson met with a group of seminarians, individually, and asked each one to prepare a short, extemporaneous talk on a given biblical theme, and then walk over to a nearby building to present it. Along the way to the presentation, each studnet ran into a man slumped in an alley, head down, eyes closed, coughing and groaning. The question was, who would stop and help? Darley and Batson introduced three variables into the experiment, to make its results more meaningful.

The duo gave each seminarian a questionnaire to complete beforehand about why they wanted to study theology, they varied the subject of the talk to be given — some even including the subject of the Good Samaritan. Lastly, they varied the instructions given to the students.

In some of the cases, as he sent the students on their way, the experimenter would look at his watch and say, “Oh, you’re late. They were expecting you a few minutes ago. We’d better get moving.” In other cases, he would say, “It will be a few minutes before they’re ready for you, but you might as well head over now.”

If you ask people to predict which seminarians played the Good Samaritan (and subsequent studies have done just this) their answers are highly consistent. They almost all say that the students who entered they ministry to help people and those reminded of the importance of compassion by having just read the parable of teh Good Samaritan will be the most likely to stop. Most of us, I think, would agree with those conclusions. In fact, neither of those factors made any difference. “It is hard to think of a context in which norms concerning helping those in distress are more salient than for a person thinking about the Good Samaritan, and yet it did not significantly increase helping behavior,” Darley and Batson concluded. “Indeed, on several occasions, a seminary student going to give his talk on the parable of the Good Samaritan literally stepped over the victim as he hurried on his way.” The only thing that really mattered was whether the student was in a rush. Of the group that was, 10 percent stopped to help. Of the group who knew they had a few minutes to spare, 63 percent stopped.

This much may not be a surprise to many of us… I in fact recall hearing sermons on the Good Samaritan proclaiming the fact that we don’t tend to help people, especially if we’re in a hurry or if it’s othewise inconvenient. Saying it doesn’t change our behaviour though. But Gladwell’s conclusion helps drive this home for me:

What this study is suggesting, in other words, is that the convictions of your heart and the actual contents of your thoughts are less important, in the end, in guiding your actions than the immediate context of your behaviour.

That’s really it, isn’t it? The single most important factor is not what we believe or how convinced we are of the virtue of helping others… it’s simply the context in which we act and how it affects us personally. It’s relative. On the day I read this, I wrote Gladwell’s conclusion in my Moleskine, followed by the question, “…and we’re concerned about philosophical relativism?”

Wow. The evangelical church has been concerned about relativism for some while now, as a great evil… they argue for absolute truth. Not that the question of truth is irrelevant, but perhaps we should be just a little more concerned about behavioural relativism rather than philosophical relativism. Let’s see… “love God, love your neighbour” …probably behavioural. Hmm. “Religion that is pure and undefiled before God, the Father, is this: to visit orphans and widows in their affliction, and to keep oneself unstained from the world.” That’s probably behavioural too. I imagine if we looked, we might perhaps find some principle about it mattering less what we say and more what we do — not that we have every one of the facts straight about Jesus, but that we give a cup of water in his name because we are his disciples. If we looked.

Who are you? Perhaps it depends who you’re with, and what challenge is before you. Which kind of relativism is a greater peril, philosophical or behavioural?

8 Responses to “Relativism: is it Really what you Know?”

  1. Cindy-lu Says:

    So… many… thoughts… Must… organize…

    Okay.

    1. Is Behavioural Relativism just another term for situational ethics? And if so, wouldn’t it then simply be a subset of philosophical relativism?

    2. What was the question that the parable was intended to answer? Who is my neighbour. Hence “love your neighbour as yourself” would mean to love anyone as you love yourself. Does it necessarily follow that one is to love everyone as themselves? And, if so, does that mean that every need you come across is one you are then compelled to meet? If that were the case – and I could be wrong – then I don’t think I would ever leave my bedroom, let alone my house! If I become responsible for meeting every need that comes across my path it is simply too big of a burden. Francis Schaeffer has been quoted as saying “Every need is not a call.”

    3. So… did Jesus stop to help every hurting person He met? What about Mark 6:1-6 “1Jesus left there and went to his hometown, accompanied by his disciples. 2When the Sabbath came, he began to teach in the synagogue, and many who heard him were amazed.
    “Where did this man get these things?” they asked. “What’s this wisdom that has been given him, that he even does miracles! 3Isn’t this the carpenter? Isn’t this Mary’s son and the brother of James, Joseph, Judas and Simon? Aren’t his sisters here with us?” And they took offense at him.

    4Jesus said to them, “Only in his hometown, among his relatives and in his own house is a prophet without honor.” 5He could not do any miracles there, except lay his hands on a few sick people and heal them. 6And he was amazed at their lack of faith.” ?

    I don’t know.

    4. I’ve spent the last year devouring every work by Francis Schaeffer that I could get my hands on. I believe that truth is a HUGE subject. However, I do believe that it is relevant here. How you behave is directly related to what you believe. Not necessarily what you think you believe, or give mental assent to, but what you actually hold as true in the depths of who you are. If you believe that “believing” is enough, then that will dictate your actions or lack therof, for instance. If you do not act then you will have either rationalized your inaction as being in sync with what you believe, or you will believe yourself guilty of not doing what you ought and will ( I suppose) seek a remedy for the guilt.

    5. While I can see the basis for Gladwell’s conclusion, I think it oversimplifies the situation. I believe that the decision making process is far more complex than one can discern simply from observing the results. Did he ever query the participants after the fact to find out how they came to make their decisions?

    6. The question of the value of action is one I have been blogging about lately. Particularly as it relates to intentions. Or rather, the value of intentions not followed up on. Curious? Read here and here

    7. “In our postmodern culture, people doubt the existence of sparkling intellectual answers until they see the beautiful quality of the human and personal answers in our lives. Unless they see ’supernaturally restored relationships,’ unless they see a ’song of life’ they are unlikely to pay attention to any proclamation of the gospel.” – Jerram Barrs from the introduction to “True Spirituality” by Francis Schaeffer.

    8. “Matthew 7: 21″Not everyone who says to me, ‘Lord, Lord,’ will enter the kingdom of heaven, but only he who does the will of my Father who is in heaven. 22Many will say to me on that day, ‘Lord, Lord, did we not prophesy in your name, and in your name drive out demons and perform many miracles?’ 23Then I will tell them plainly, ‘I never knew you. Away from me, you evildoers!’

    Point here – just because your actions look good doesn’t mean your heart is.

    And now my brain is spent.

  2. Brother Maynard Says:

    Hmmm. I think your thoughts were more lucid and complete than mine were!

    There may be some relation to situational ethics, but I don’t think we’re talking the same thing. Situational ethics defines what’s morally right according to the situation… in this example, none of the students (presumably) would argue that it is morally right not to help, but it was situationally inconvenient. What it illustrates is not that so much that our ethics are determined by context, but that our actions are. And we don’t seem to have a lot of trouble rationalizing the fact that our actions don’t match our ethics… or our intentions, as there’s probably a lot of overlap there.

    I don’t think the people who did the study (which Gladwell cites) were concerned at all about the decision-making process, and I don’t think I am either on the basis of the preceding. An inquiry there would likely yield a detailed explanation of exactly how each student could rationalize not helping when he clearly held the belief and value that he should. I know this fairly certainly, because it’s exactly what I’d do! ;^)

  3. Cindy-lu Says:

    Fair enough.

    But do you, personally, hold the value that you *should* stop and help every time you see a need? And what about the *need* to keep one’s commitments? I’d say that these folks were provided with competing needs and they had to choose one. *How* they chose would be extremely relevant to me.

    For instance, I have a friend for whom time is not important/relevant. It doesn’t enter her decision making process. I, on the other hand, find it to be the height of rudeness to keep someone waiting (thus not valuing his/her time) and as such it would have a huge impact on my choice of action. Whether you consider which need is more pressing, or which you are more capable of meeting, or whether you are so focused that you don’t notice, or whether you simply don’t want to stop is quite relevant, I think. I honestly don’t believe that any one of us is capable of meeting all the needs we believe we *should* stop to meet. So the basis upon which we make the choice seems to me far more practical a place to begin. :-)

  4. Brother Maynard Says:

    Ah, now I get your gist a bit better. No, I don’t think it’s our individual responsibility to meet every need… I generally think that the Holy Spirit will “highlight” the situations we’re supposed to get involved with. otoh, there are a lot of times where we just don’t seem to get any guidance at all, and in those times, I think we default toward not helping when perhaps we should reach out more at those times too.

    I also follow your notion of people to whom time seems unimportant… I know some of those myself. So yes, it’s important to be on time and meet those committments… provided we don’t make the default assumption that an intervening or complicating factor that forces us to make a choice couldn’t be God.

  5. Cindy-lu Says:

    Granted.

    Now for the big question. If you think we should be concerned about behavioural relativism are you then advocating the existence of “absolute behaviour” as the alternative? And what would that look like?

  6. Brother Maynard Says:

    Cindy-lu, you’re just not letting me get away with anything here, are you? ;^)

    I think the point isn’t so much that there’s a programmed behaviour that’s absoulte for every situation. I think the point is that behaviourally, we already act otherwise, recognizing easily that for situations with any degree of complexity, it’s just not that simple. It’s simple that you stop your car at a red light… but there’s a slight complexity if there’s an ambulance behind you with lights and siren on, prompting you to go through the red light.

    Perhaps it’s a non sequiter for us to have thought that there would be a theoretical version of absoluteness when we realize there isn’t a practical one. Just asking the question, mostly… it’s something to think through, to challenge our assumptions and see if they survive or not ;^)

  7. Cindy-lu Says:

    Nope.

    Frankly, I’m just SOOO enjoying being able to hash through things with someone who’s a thinker – like me. Jude keeps telling me to stop trying to make non-thinkers think. And maybe she’s right. I’m getting a pretty big lump on my forehead from banging my head against that particular brick wall. Thanks for thinking and not taking it personally. That, alone, is refreshing.

    Oh, and I did read that article on Simple Church. I’ll wait for an appropriate post to ask some of my questions. :-)

  8. Brother Maynard Says:

    But Cindy-lu,

    The Thinker.. disturbs the complacent. He obstructs the busy pragmatists. He questions the very foundations of all around him, and in so doing throws doubts upon aims, motives, and purposes which those running affairs have neither time nor patience to investigate. The thinker is a nuisance.

    (Dave Tomlinson in The Post-Evangelical)

    Actually, I have a few tabs open in two different browser windows (Yay Firefox!) on Simple Church themes, so I hope to have a relevant post or two coming up… though now I’m dreading what kind of questions you might thrust into the mix!

    ;^)

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